Staying Connected With Your Children

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No one ever said that talking to your children would be easy. There are often good days when you’ll be able to understand what your children are trying to say and teach them about some of the goals that you have for them. You can have days when it’s easier than others to teach them about what they should learn in life or when you’re able to help them with homework. There will also be days when you just won’t get through to your children. These are the times when you can keep a few tips in mind for better communication. 

One way to improve communication as a parent is to ask questions that don’t have a dead end answer. This will encourage your child to open up and talk about the day or to talk about issues that might be concerning. It will also allow you to think about other questions and conversation starters that can lead to more talks during the day. Another way that you can communicate better would be to listen to what your child says during the day and pick up a piece of information that you can talk about. Try to listen to the language that your child is talking in so that you can speak the same language and carry on longer conversations

Talk to your child about how you’re feeling and some of the things that you’re concerned about and how you want to improve your relationship. If you have younger children, then consider getting on their level to talk to them instead of standing over them as they might see this as being overbearing and demanding. Try to get your children involved in things around the house, such as rearranging furniture or deciding what to prepare for a meal. When your children know that they are needed in the home, then they will likely be more open to answering questions and being involved with the family. 

Pay attention to the signs that your child displays as to when it’s time to stop talking. You don’t want to make your child angry. Instead, you need to provide a comforting and welcoming environment as this will make your child feel as though it’s alright to open up and voice their thoughts. If your child starts at something or begins to give answers that are nonsense, then it’s usually time to put the conversation aside and start again at a later time. 

Put yourself in your child’s shoes no matter the age. Think about how your child feels about a situation or how your child might react about questions that are asked. Try to remember what you felt like in school or what you felt like going through a situation that your child is experiencing. Offer advice about how you handled the situation. Try to repeat details that you hear in the conversation. It’s important to show that you’re listening and that you’ve been paying attention to what your child has to say even if you might not want to hear details about some subjects.


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